[optim] Rectify capturable testing and fix bugs! (#118326)

This PR fixes several bugs, listed in priority:
1. `load_state_dict` with a nontensor step was incorrect for capturable and fused implementations since we don't create the tensors on the right device in `__setstate__`. This has been fixed.
2. The most recently added capturable implementations forgot the check that all tensors should be on CUDA for eager. We've now added those checks
3. The most recent change in Adamax only adds capturable for foreach but will silently be incorrect for forloop/single-tensor. I've added erroring and modified testing with many many many skips for that. Honestly my preference after this PR has only been further cemented  that we should just do the single tensor and multi tensor capturable implementations together in the future. @mlazos
4. The conditional for adding cuda-supported configs for the optimizer infos was incorrect! So we hadn't been testing capturable! This also stands rectified and was the trigger for this PR in the first place.
5. In a similar way, the conditional for `_get_optim_inputs_including_global_cliquey_kwargs` was incorrect sometimes as well. This has also been corrected.

The following is not a bug, but is just something to make life simpler by not needing to handle Nones: `optim_input_funcs` must now mandatorily take in a `device`, which could be a string or a torch.device.

Details for posterity:
4. Running the test_foreach_matches_forloop test and printing the configs that get printed yields capturable getting included, which is correct.
```
(pytorch-3.10) [janeyx@devgpu023.odn1 ~/local/pytorch (5d50138f)]$ python test/test_optim.py -k test_foreach_matches_forloop_AdamW_cuda
/home/janeyx/.conda/envs/pytorch-3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/transformers/utils/generic.py:441: UserWarning: torch.utils._pytree._register_pytree_node is deprecated. Please use torch.utils._pytree.register_pytree_node instead.
  _torch_pytree._register_pytree_node(
/home/janeyx/.conda/envs/pytorch-3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/scipy/__init__.py:146: UserWarning: A NumPy version >=1.17.3 and <1.25.0 is required for this version of SciPy (detected version 1.26.0
  warnings.warn(f"A NumPy version >={np_minversion} and <{np_maxversion}"
params=None, kwargs={}, desc=default
params=None, kwargs={'lr': 0.01}, desc=non-default lr
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1}, desc=nonzero weight_decay
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'maximize': True}, desc=maximize
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'amsgrad': True}, desc=amsgrad
params=None, kwargs={'capturable': True}, desc=capturable
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'amsgrad': True, 'capturable': True}, desc=capturable, amsgrad
params=None, kwargs={'lr': tensor(0.0010), 'amsgrad': True, 'capturable': True}, desc=Tensor lr with capturable and amsgrad
.
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Ran 1 test in 19.229s

OK
```
5. Running the test_optimizer_can_be_printed test (which calls `_get_optim_inputs_including_global_cliquey_kwargs`) and printing what gets run is also now correct.
```
/home/janeyx/.conda/envs/pytorch-3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/scipy/__init__.py:146: UserWarning: A NumPy version >=1.17.3 and <1.25.0 is required for this version of SciPy (detected version 1.26.0
  warnings.warn(f"A NumPy version >={np_minversion} and <{np_maxversion}"
params=None, kwargs={'differentiable': False}, desc=default
params=None, kwargs={'differentiable': True}, desc=default & differentiable
params=None, kwargs={'lr': 0.01, 'differentiable': False}, desc=non-default lr
params=None, kwargs={'lr': 0.01, 'differentiable': True}, desc=non-default lr & differentiable
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'differentiable': False}, desc=nonzero weight_decay
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'differentiable': True}, desc=nonzero weight_decay & differentiable
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'maximize': True, 'differentiable': False}, desc=maximize
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'maximize': True, 'differentiable': True}, desc=maximize & differentiable
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'amsgrad': True, 'differentiable': False}, desc=amsgrad
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'amsgrad': True, 'differentiable': True}, desc=amsgrad & differentiable
.params=None, kwargs={'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=default
params=None, kwargs={'foreach': True, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=default & foreach
params=None, kwargs={'foreach': False, 'differentiable': True, 'fused': False}, desc=default & differentiable
params=None, kwargs={'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': True}, desc=default & fused
params=None, kwargs={'lr': 0.01, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=non-default lr
params=None, kwargs={'lr': 0.01, 'foreach': True, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=non-default lr & foreach
params=None, kwargs={'lr': 0.01, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': True, 'fused': False}, desc=non-default lr & differentiable
params=None, kwargs={'lr': 0.01, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': True}, desc=non-default lr & fused
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=nonzero weight_decay
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'foreach': True, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=nonzero weight_decay & foreach
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': True, 'fused': False}, desc=nonzero weight_decay & differentiable
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': True}, desc=nonzero weight_decay & fused
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'maximize': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=maximize
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'maximize': True, 'foreach': True, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=maximize & foreach
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'maximize': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': True, 'fused': False}, desc=maximize & differentiable
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'maximize': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': True}, desc=maximize & fused
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'amsgrad': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=amsgrad
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'amsgrad': True, 'foreach': True, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=amsgrad & foreach
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'amsgrad': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': True, 'fused': False}, desc=amsgrad & differentiable
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'amsgrad': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': True}, desc=amsgrad & fused
params=None, kwargs={'capturable': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=capturable
params=None, kwargs={'capturable': True, 'foreach': True, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=capturable & foreach
params=None, kwargs={'capturable': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': True, 'fused': False}, desc=capturable & differentiable
params=None, kwargs={'capturable': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': True}, desc=capturable & fused
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'amsgrad': True, 'capturable': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=capturable, amsgrad
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'amsgrad': True, 'capturable': True, 'foreach': True, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=capturable, amsgrad & foreach
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'amsgrad': True, 'capturable': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': True, 'fused': False}, desc=capturable, amsgrad & differentiable
params=None, kwargs={'weight_decay': 0.1, 'amsgrad': True, 'capturable': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': True}, desc=capturable, amsgrad & fused
params=None, kwargs={'lr': tensor(0.0010), 'amsgrad': True, 'capturable': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=Tensor lr with capturable and amsgrad
params=None, kwargs={'lr': tensor(0.0010), 'amsgrad': True, 'capturable': True, 'foreach': True, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': False}, desc=Tensor lr with capturable and amsgrad & foreach
params=None, kwargs={'lr': tensor(0.0010), 'amsgrad': True, 'capturable': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': True, 'fused': False}, desc=Tensor lr with capturable and amsgrad & differentiable
params=None, kwargs={'lr': tensor(0.0010), 'amsgrad': True, 'capturable': True, 'foreach': False, 'differentiable': False, 'fused': True}, desc=Tensor lr with capturable and amsgrad & fused
.
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Ran 2 tests in 11.112s

OK
```

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/118326
Approved by: https://github.com/mlazos

torch/optim/radam.py

@@ -44,6 +44,10 @@ class RAdam(Optimizer):
             raise ValueError(f"Invalid beta parameter at index 1: {betas[1]}")
         if not 0.0 <= weight_decay:
             raise ValueError(f"Invalid weight_decay value: {weight_decay}")
+
+        if foreach is False and capturable:
+            raise ValueError("Capturable not supported with single tensor RAdam")
+
         defaults = dict(
             lr=lr,
             betas=betas,
@@ -208,7 +212,7 @@ RAdam.__doc__ = r"""Implements RAdam algorithm.
             decay as in AdamW to obtain RAdamW (default: False)
         {_foreach_doc}
         {_differentiable_doc}
-        {_capturable_doc}
+        {_capturable_doc} For RAdam, capturable is only supported when foreach=True.
 
     .. _On the variance of the adaptive learning rate and beyond:
         https://arxiv.org/abs/1908.03265
@@ -297,7 +301,7 @@ def _single_tensor_radam(
     has_complex: bool,
 ):
     if capturable:
-        raise RuntimeError("capturable is not supported for single tensor radam")
+        raise RuntimeError("capturable is not supported for single tensor RAdam (when foreach=False)")
 
     for i, param in enumerate(params):
         grad = grads[i]