[miniz] Bump miniz version to 3.0.2 and add patch for zip64 (#140041)

Summary:
Bump miniz version from 2.1.0 to 3.0.2 and apply these patches:

* #79636 patches internal BUCK and bazel build
* #138959 adds `bool compute_crc32` argument
* miniz PR: https://github.com/richgel999/miniz/pull/324 to support
  zip64

Anyone bumping miniz version again, please apply these patches as well.

Test Plan:
Rely on unit test

Imported from OSS

Differential Revision: D65586230

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/140041
Approved by: https://github.com/mikaylagawarecki

build.bzl

@@ -47,7 +47,7 @@ def define_targets(rules):
         deps = [
             ":caffe2_headers",
             "//c10",
-            "//third_party/miniz-2.1.0:miniz",
+            "//third_party/miniz-3.0.2:miniz",
             "@com_github_glog//:glog",
         ],
     )