[Clang Tidy] Fix misc-header-include-cycle errors in clang-tidy and ignore some files (#127233)

Since there are such cycles in libfmt and PyTorch, which are detected by clang-tidy.
```
/home/cyy/pytorch/third_party/fmt/include/fmt/format-inl.h:25:10: error: circular header file dependency detected while including 'format.h', please check the include path [misc-header-include-cycle,-warnings-as-errors]
   25 | #include "format.h"
      |          ^
/home/cyy/pytorch/third_party/fmt/include/fmt/format.h:4530:12: note: 'format-inl.h' included from here
 4530 | #  include "format-inl.h"
```
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/127233
Approved by: https://github.com/ezyang

.clang-tidy

@@ -62,4 +62,6 @@ readability-string-compare,
 '
 HeaderFilterRegex: '^(aten/|c10/|torch/).*$'
 WarningsAsErrors: '*'
+CheckOptions:
+  misc-header-include-cycle.IgnoredFilesList: 'format.h;ivalue.h;custom_class.h;Dict.h;List.h'
 ...

torch/csrc/jit/python/python_custom_class.cpp

@@ -1,3 +1,4 @@
+#include <torch/csrc/jit/python/pybind_utils.h>
 #include <torch/csrc/jit/python/python_custom_class.h>
 
 #include <torch/csrc/jit/frontend/sugared_value.h>

torch/csrc/jit/python/python_custom_class.h

@@ -1,6 +1,5 @@
 #pragma once
 
-#include <torch/csrc/jit/python/pybind_utils.h>
 #include <torch/csrc/utils/pybind.h>
 #include <torch/custom_class.h>